Issues Solved Newsletter
This newsletter is a subject I can really get behind. It’s far better to live in deliberate pursuit of solution rather than living in or with a problem. Here’s some examples of how to accomplish this based on all the many years of guiding others to seek this position.
When a wife and mother came to me asking me how she was expected to cope with her hard working husband being gone more than at home, while she often felt she was raising their children single handed, I asked her one question. I asked her what it was that she had fallen in love with in the first place, that led her to marry the man who was the husband and father. She lit up as her eyes cast their way back, and she described a sexy hard working successful man, she couldn’t wait to see and go on dates with. I asked her if he was still the man that walked through her door every day. It took her not even a moment, and with a bit of a twinkle in her eye, to nod and say she still saw that guy. I asked her to remember that the hard working man may have felt even more incentive to work for a whole family, rather than just himself or even him and her.
There were children now. I invited her to create time for just him and her to go on dates, even in the home once the children were in bed, or to call in friends, family and share some nights off where the couple could escape responsibilities and have fun as a couple again. She smiled and began cooking up a plan. What we had accomplished was to play in the solution instead of dancing with the problem. The problem was she missed him and needed to let him know he was missed and loved. Who wouldn’t want to hear that?
One man came to see me who wanted to retire but had many employees in his business and felt so responsible he couldn’t release the business to take care of a life ahead he was desperately ready for. The guidance suggested that he could create a co-operative where employees had a share of the future and he could gradually let go, practicing being more and more retired until he simply was. He loved it and implemented it almost immediately. For him, the world of adventure was waiting to replace the commitments and responsibility.
There is always at least one or more solutions to every problem, provided we give ourselves permission to stand in that future reality. We are creators and it ‘s more creative to find and seek solutions than it is to keep reminding ourselves of the problem. In this way issues are solved.
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