When we lose someone so close to our hearts, it’s almost unimaginable that we can pick ourselves up and continue in this life at all. That’s the tough aspect of having experienced the greatest and most eternal love.

I’ve seen it more times than I could have possibly imagined. I’ve seen it with a parent, especially a mother, who carried and birthed a great love, that was taken too soon, and against the usual expectation of a child who was supposed to outlive a parent.

I’ve seen it with children who lost their parents long before they were ever ready to let go, when there was so much of their own development years they wanted their parent/s to witness in them.

Then there’s potentially the largest loss of all, that of a twin flame, a huge love affair with that special someone, that was able to hear your heart, and know you in ways that no other person on the whole planet would ever know you.

None of these great eternal loves are simple losses. Not one of them leave us easily.

However, if we didn’t know such great and eternal love, we wouldn’t feel such deep loss of them when we are still here physically and they are not.

No matter how spiritual we are, no matter how strongly we stand in our faith, it’s like the most powerful wind of emptiness can blow us off our feet, when we have lived through a deep letting go of someone who has an eternal place in our field of heart energy.

This is how fabulous life actually is. To feel such loss means we have loved that deep.

To live and to not love into that depth is to not live at all. I choose to love that much and to miss the people that I care for so profoundly.

I loved my mum this much. Sometimes over the years, she drove me a little crazy with her own personality quirks, traits and habits. There were times when we disagreed and didn’t see each other’s viewpoints. We had earlier years of misunderstandings, that had often driven a wedge into the relationship, spoiling it’s sweet core, creating layers that were in the way of that. However, we found each other, and kept doing so. We both loved each other and always managed to find our way back to the heart of that sweet connection. I cherish her memories and miss her every day.

She had my heart and I am so grateful she was my mum. She did something really beautiful before she left this earth plane. She made sure that Jeff took me on with all of his heart. He agreed to take over where she left off. She didn’t want me to stand on this earth plane, helping to guide others, without someone’s hand to squeeze, who loved me with his whole heart. Jeff agreed and now I have had two extraordinary eternal loves who will walk with me through this life and into forever.

Blessed is to love and be loved. Fully blessed is to know we are loved and can love through an eternal flame that doesn’t die when the body lets go.

We are each from the eternal flame and we return to it. One of our best missions is to know it while living through the body and in the timeline we have chosen to be alive.

I have a greater understanding of this eternal love now than I’ve ever held.

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